{"id":5415,"date":"2015-06-07T03:00:07","date_gmt":"2015-06-07T03:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/winapageant.com\/?p=105"},"modified":"2024-04-01T10:33:10","modified_gmt":"2024-04-01T17:33:10","slug":"7-12-tips-to-display-charisma-like-james-bond","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/winapageant.com\/7-12-tips-to-display-charisma-like-james-bond\/","title":{"rendered":"7: 12 Tips to Display Charisma like James Bond"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/3599358\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/backward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/4ac1c0\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"100%\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"\" webkitallowfullscreen=\"\" mozallowfullscreen=\"\" oallowfullscreen=\"\" msallowfullscreen=\"\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1311\" src=\"https:\/\/winapageant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Episode-7-Featured-Image-300x187.png\" alt=\"episode-7-featured-image\" width=\"300\" height=\"187\" srcset=\"https:\/\/winapageant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Episode-7-Featured-Image-300x187.png 300w, https:\/\/winapageant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/Episode-7-Featured-Image.png 767w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>You\u2019ve heard this a million times, \u201cShe\u2019s got it!\u201d \u201cThere\u2019s just something about her\u2026\u201d \u201cWow \u2013 She\u2019s just wow.\u201d It\u2019s the \u2018It Factor\u2019; the attractive quality that someone exudes which makes you want to be near them, befriend them, or perhaps choose them for the title or a promotion. You know <em>it<\/em>\u00a0when you see\u00a0<em>it<\/em>. <em>So\u2026what is \u2018it\u2019?!\u00a0<\/em> It\u2019s\u00a0<em>Charisma<\/em>! Charisma is a unique combination of characteristics, which allow an individual to standout in a crowd, appeal to an audience, and grab the attention of judges and others.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s no secret that charisma has the power to persuade. If you\u2019ve ever seen a James Bond movie, you know what I\u2019m talking about.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m going to teach you 12 ways you can project James-Bond Style Charisma\u2026get it? Episode 007? James Bond?<\/p>\n<p>Charisma is something that anyone can exude at all times. Meaning, it has nothing to do with looks, education, skills, etc. It is really more of an attitude.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"12 Tips to Display Pageant Charisma Like James Bond (Episode 07)\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ifjAXFDehZM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve created a list of 12 specific things that can help you develop that \u2018it-factor\u2019 charisma.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s jump in!\u00a0<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">1. Expect Acceptance<\/h4>\n<p>If you expect others to accept you, they will note your presence and provide you respect. If you over-compensate and\u00a0<em>try<\/em>\u00a0to gain their acceptance it will come off as needy and you will unintentionally lose their respect. Whenever you enter the interview room, a cocktail party, or a networking function, always expect to be accepted by all.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">2. Accept Yourself \u2013 the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly<\/h4>\n<p>Everyone has insecurities. Usually people are too concerned about their own insecurities to worry about yours. Acknowledge your own insecurities, then, get over it! Change what you can; accept what you can\u2019t with a smile.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">3. Control your Attitude<\/h4>\n<p>Your attitude toward the world is a direct reflection of your character. Always show a pleasant look, nod politely when others talk, and smile a lot! Make others feel comfortable being around you and they will appreciate your positive attitude.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">4. Control your Emotions<\/h4>\n<p>Emotions have the tendency to be\u00a0over-dwelled on irrational thoughts. Learn what triggers your emotions (laughter, tears, and anger) and ask yourself \u201c<em>will this matter to me in 3 months?\u201d If not,\u00a0<\/em>then dismiss irrationality. If it is a life-altering emotional reaction, allow yourself space and time to express your emotions and adjust accordingly.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">5. Stand like a Model \u2013 All the Time<\/h4>\n<p>The way you feel about yourself is often the way others will feel about you. Project a positive self-image with a tall, confident posture; lengthen your back and neck, relax your facial muscles, stand like your photo is always being taken.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">6. Learn to Tell a Story<\/h4>\n<p>People tend to remember visual images better than just words. By using an anecdote to make a point, people will remember you longer, and be more interested in your words.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">7. Dress the Part<\/h4>\n<p>Images help people categorize their thoughts. Actors \u2018dress the part\u2019 when they audition for coveted roles so that the casting director will type-cast them. Be intentional about choosing your image. Whether you\u2019re going to the gym or to the grand ball \u2013 dress the way you want to be perceived.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">8. Own Your Mistakes (and Accomplishments)<\/h4>\n<p>Mistakes prove attempts. Admitting you were wrong (or right!) proves your wisdom. Own up to your mistakes and accomplishments by giving credit where credit is due, explaining the lessons you learned, and encouraging others to also try something new.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">9. Simply Respond<\/h4>\n<p>Don\u2019t feel like you have to have an answer to every question you\u2019re asked. Be prepared to just respond naturally and reflectively. If you know yourself well, you\u2019ll be comfortable responding to any question \u2013 with or without an actual answer.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">10. Grow Thick Skin<\/h4>\n<p>Criticism is a great learning tool \u2013 whether or not the supplier means it to be. Filter all the criticism you receive to see if it is something you can learn from. If it applies, modify your behavior; if it doesn\u2019t apply, let it fly.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">11. Prepare, Prepare, Prepare!<\/h4>\n<p>Preparation is key to comfort, credibility, and advancement. Know the names of people you\u2019ll meet in social situations. Review key points of a topic prior to the meeting. Brace yourself for inevitable changes. Do all this in advance of the important meeting, interview, press conference, or social engagement.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"color: #424cd1; font-weight: bold;\">12. Be in the Moment<\/h4>\n<p>Busy people love to multitask, but they can seem distracted when engaging with people and giving your best. Make a conscious effort to devote yourself completely to the task at hand or the people you\u2019re with before moving onto the next item on your to-do list. Taking the time to be in the moment will allow you to better connect with others, their concerns, and your purpose.<\/p>\n<p>If you read this through every day, I\u2019m certain you\u2019ll start gaining electrifying Charisma &#8212;<\/p>\n<p><em>and that, ladies, is how you win a pageant!<\/em>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Contact Information<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/alyciadarby\">@AlyciaDarby<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/winapageant\">WinAPageant Facebook<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<p>For more great pageant training, enroll in the&nbsp;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/freepageantcourse.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Free Pageant Course<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/freepageantcourse.com\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/winapageant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Free-Pageant-Course-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3269\" srcset=\"https:\/\/winapageant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Free-Pageant-Course-1.png 700w, https:\/\/winapageant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Free-Pageant-Course-1-300x129.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-1467\" src=\"https:\/\/winapageant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Featured-Image-Template-1-remaining-08-300x187.jpg\" alt=\"featured-image-template-1-remaining-08\" width=\"300\" height=\"187\" srcset=\"https:\/\/winapageant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Featured-Image-Template-1-remaining-08-300x187.jpg 300w, https:\/\/winapageant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/Featured-Image-Template-1-remaining-08.jpg 767w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve heard this a million times, \u201cShe\u2019s got it!\u201d \u201cThere\u2019s just something about her\u2026\u201d \u201cWow \u2013 She\u2019s just wow.\u201d It\u2019s the \u2018It Factor\u2019; the attractive quality that someone exudes which makes you want to be near them, befriend them, or perhaps choose them for the title or a promotion. 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